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Note To Self: Sincerely Yours

I hope you return to yourself soon enough

The clarity of life when you’re attuned to your truest self fills the void we sometimes feel

Know that your truest self cannot be summed up

Bottled up. Ignored. Buried. Abused.

It knows when it’s time to call it quits

It knows when it’s truly happy & content

It recognises & knows that it doesn’t take a lot to make you happy

Rice porridge with butter, milk & peanut butter for breakfast on Sunday. What a feeling!

There are days when the wind is the only thing keeping us company from morning to evening

Sometimes we feel surrounded by unseen company, but is it truly safe to entertain angels these days?

We can be ourselves with ourselves more. Comfortable in our company & blessed by the company of others because we’re no longer afraid of living & loving

Simple things make us feel so delighted

It’s why it’s hard to think why someone would want go out of their way to be insincere in our presence

When there’s so much joy to be felt in just the honesty of living & connecting effortlessly

I hope we’re returning to ourselves, gently at a time πŸ’Ž

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#EndRapeCulture Enough (Lock U Up)

πŸ“· by KIM of Diamonds
Artwork inspired by a women’s march which took place in 2019, Malawi #MyBodyMyRights

Every year we read so many cases of women & girls being sexually violated – raped by strange & familiar men.

Why does it seem like we’re stuck in this vicious cycle as a society? Why are the many campaigns for #EndingRapeCulture not been effective?

Source: Unknown

The reality is we’re not doing enough to protect women & girls. Men & boys are also victims of other men sexually violating them – to whom do they turn to with such issues in our culture of silencing men.

Victims spend years with psychological trauma whilst perpetrators get away scot-free & oftentimes commit the same offense elsewhere. Worse still, perpetrators are fathers, uncles, grandfathers, cousins, brothers, step relatives, teachers, the list is endless!

We’ve seen a lot of promises about ending rape culture but the actions on the ground show that there isn’t a strong enough deterrent to keep rapists from committing crimes against other people’s bodies. Babies are victims. Young women. Mothers. Grandmothers. People with disabilities. Men & boys too. What needs to change? Who is responsible for the progress in this fight against rape culture? How and will victims ever fully heal & what compensation do they get for their ordeal?

We took the streets with #TakeItToTheStreetsMalawi2020 & we rallied together as women and men with placards that stated the outright truth – “My body, my rights”. That’s the story behind the artwork for “Enough (Lock U Up)”

That’s what inspired my latest song “Enough (Lock U Up)” which features incredible spoken word poetess, Dark Shadow and was produced by Ckay πŸ‡²πŸ‡Ό

It is an anthem for standing up against these violent actions & calling for justice to be done on the behalf of women and girls who’ve been violated sexually.

Enough (Lock U Up) KIM of Diamonds; Dark Shadow

We want to see perpetrators being locked away for life for the damage they do to womens and girls’ bodies. In reality we do want to see them receive more severe punishments than being locked away. We hope to see strides in the cause in the next couple years.

I tried looking for a toll number for rape victims and I didn’t find any. If you have any more information on a toll number that can be used in Malawi for people who want to report rape cases, please share the information in the comment section below.

You can download Download “Enough (Lock U Up)” from my shop πŸ’Ž